A Practice of Jacobs Counsel LLCServing NY · NJ · OH — Vol. 2026
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Estate Planning for Families

If you have minor children, the most important paragraph in your estate plan is the one that names a guardian.

Key Points

  • Guardian designations for minor children (primary and successor)
  • Testamentary or revocable trusts to hold assets for minor beneficiaries
  • Life insurance sized to fund education, housing, and a guardian stipend
  • Coordination of 529 plans, UTMA accounts, and retirement beneficiary designations
  • Letters of instruction covering values, traditions, and practical guidance

Guardianship is the headline decision

Naming a guardian is the single decision most parents avoid — and the one that, if you do not make it, a court will make for you.

Trusts for minor beneficiaries

A 25-year-old should not inherit a seven-figure life insurance payout outright.

Coordinating beneficiary designations and 529s

Retirement accounts, life insurance, and 529s pass by beneficiary designation, not by the will.

Frequently Asked

When should I create my first estate plan?+

At the latest, when you have a child, buy a home, or accumulate retirement assets.

What happens if I do not name a guardian for my children?+

A court will appoint one.

How much life insurance do parents with minor children need?+

A common starting point is 10–12x the working parent's income, plus expected education costs, plus mortgage payoff, minus existing liquid assets.

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Next Step

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